Whats a man to do when......

Your girlfriend leaves you because she thinks you put her second since you got your car.:deaf:<----- She said she feels like that.All this happened because i fell asleep and she wanted me up but i refused because i was tired.:sad: Anybody had this?I maybe young but i still got feelings.

Most women will always complain about not being the center of attention, or complain about any other woman being the center of attention. Just focus on your ride and she'll come back if she wants to... either way who cares you will have to deal with more women once yopur car is done hahahahaha

[quote=SikNLow;168390]Most women will always complain about not being the center of attention, or complain about any other woman being the center of attention. Just focus on your ride and she'll come back if she wants to... either way who cares you will have to deal with more women once yopur car is done hahahahaha[/quote]

True I dunno she's dumped me 469326476329 times and always said it was her anger i should've just not taken her back the last time but not depression comes.Hopefully something pops me to happiness.

Didn't happen to me but it happen to a friend of mines. where the girl left him because he put alot of time on his car and other peoples car to fix and stuff. she would call him soooo much. all he asked was for space. he snapped one day and she left him. now he has a  much better girl that understand him.

[quote=hazesus;168398]Didn't happen to me but it happen to a friend of mines. where the girl left him because he put alot of time on his car and other peoples car to fix and stuff. she would call him soooo much. all he asked was for space. he snapped one day and she left him. now he has a  much better girl that understand him.[/quote]

True that i'll just have to adjust myself because it's just wierd changing girls for the first time it's like when yo from diapers to undies.:shrug: I'll say i want her back but again time will tell.

Whats wierd is she knows how much i like cars and stuff but yet she complains she did the same when i had my pitbull.Some times girls are so confusing.

just think of it this way. your car will never leave you and you can touch it when ever you want. XD

[quote=Premiertea;168413]just think of it this way. your car will never leave you and you can touch it when ever you want. XD[/quote]

True that!I don't know she said if i change she'll take me back but in the past i always took her back no my thinking is saying if you get back together she'll probably do it again.What you guys think?Take her back and just go with it and next time she does it forget her or just leave it how it is?

[quote=unknown007;168418]True that!I don't know she said if i change she'll take me back but in the past i always took her back no my thinking is saying if you get back together she'll probably do it again.What you guys think?Take her back and just go with it and next time she does it forget her or just leave it how it is?[/quote]

you should say no if you change i will take you back..fuck that..


rule of thumb

1. your car is better than a girl...if she starts bitching just turn her off

2. your car gives you pleasure when you want it and however many times you want it.

3. she never wants shit but gas and love.

4. you dont feel bad spoiling your car with 1400 rims.

You guys are nutz! A car is just a car and not any kind of substitution for a good woman. If your too into your car to make room for your girl, then you may have some prioritizing issues IMO..

nicely said augdogg

[QUOTE=augdogg;168488]You guys are nutz! A car is just a car and not any kind of substitution for a good woman. If your too into your car to make room for your girl, then you may have some prioritizing issues IMO..[/QUOTE]


haha sounds familiar from my lecture that augg gave me lol

I also agree with augdogg but you have to take into consideration that she has a history of complaining about being second fiddle in his life..... she complains about him spending too much time with his dog, with his car, then later it will be with his friends or family even..... guess what? NOT WORTH IT AND DEFINATELY NOT A [B][I][U]GOOD [/U][/I][/B]WOMAN!!! no ultimatums should ever be imposed in a relationship... if it's come to that point then your relationship is over in my opinion.

[quote=SikNLow;168503]I also agree with augdogg but you have to take into consideration that she has a history of complaining about being second fiddle in his life..... she complains about him spending too much time with his dog, with his car, then later it will be with his friends or family even..... guess what? NOT WORTH IT AND DEFINATELY NOT A [B][I][U]GOOD [/U][/I][/B]WOMAN!!! no ultimatums should ever be imposed in a relationship... if it's come to that point then your relationship is over in my opinion.[/quote]

Well lets put it this way.Shes a family type so she likes to hang out with m family and i like to hang out with hers.When i had my dog before, got rid of it because of some dumb issues with the neighbors, she said,"i don't know i feel like your going to give him more attention."It ended up not true and her giving it more attention lol.

Now when i got my car she said,"i feel like ima be coming second."She said all this because i told her my plans which made her worry and think i'll be dumpiing all my money into it.The only times i have spent all day with my car was when i changed my speakers.Funny thing is she says i have no money or use it on her when she knows i have no job yet.She knows my dads helping me thought which is like wtf?!On the other hand her parents giv eher money whenever she wants,aint that gay?

Girls are just confusing.She said she'll try hard to not be like that etc. etc.I took it but im not really like feeling the same after all.So im like okay if you dump me again it's final and im moving on.Yeah i maybe dumb but lets be real i love my girl more then my car.A car cant hug you and tell you i love you when you want it.

So therefore im back with her.:shrug:But if it happens again i'll post again here and by then it'll be over for sure.Swear though it sucks that theres this chick and shes my girlfriend's, friend's sister ugh!!!:saiyancrunks:AND SHE LOOKING GREAT!!!Hahaha see thats how i feel now!!!Relationships are confusing.Hope i made the right decision though.

Don't know if i made any sense if i didn't tell me i'll edit it in the morning night guys thanks for helping out.:biggthumpup:

[quote=urmyhero4now;168449]you should say no if you change i will take you back..fuck that..


rule of thumb

1. your car is better than a girl...if she starts bitching just turn her off

2. your car gives you pleasure when you want it and however many times you want it.

3. she never wants shit but gas and love.

4. you dont feel bad spoiling your car with 1400 rims.[/quote]

1. Yeah, and when you go to turn her back on, she's broken...not good

2. Whenever you want it, until she's broken down, or gets wrecked.

3. Have you SEEN the price of gas lately? That bitch be wanting a bit much nowadays! 

4. Yeah, I don't feel bad until the 'other' girlfriend gets mad lol :smiley-rofl:

If your a car nut, let me explain it like this. Building a relationship is like building a car in a way. The platform(you gotta be satified w/ this one) , money(weather you like it or not you gotta pay to play) , time(everything happens in stages, i.e. bunnie/party stage, trust stage, are you seriouse enough to marry me stage, house stage, get the picture?) , effort(the work you put in) , and quaility parts(if your gonna be comitted then don't slack).

It's just a part of their nature. My wife beat me with pillows the other night b/c she was MAD at ME and left the house and I didn't go look for her. Before that she beat me with pillows b/c I was on the computer WHILE SHE WAS SLEEP and wasn't paying attention to her. :saiyancrunks:

SikNLow is money with the advice on women, so listen to the wise one young grasshoppa.

I dunno man reading this thread really makes me wonder about lots of folks...
 
I agree with augdogg...
 
Cars are cars YOU FELLAZ SHOULD NOT WORSHIP FALSE GODS......A mans place on earth is to spread his seads and I tell you a car aint gunna make that happen...it will not carry your child...
 
IF you put your car infront of a women who can pleasure you in more ways than a car...fooolishness!!!
 
and if you think a car can I bet you got a stong right or left hand grip:smiley-rofl:
 
How old are you fellaz??? enjoy beeing young while you can because soon or later you have to grow up and life should not revolve around your car...
 
look at this way...you dump all that money into your cars that you will never see a return..chances are you will sell your car as soon as your project is complete...
 
Maybe lots of you have shit loads of money to burn but I know with bills house paymets rental homes 4 kids and a few small business to run my family and work come first...
 
My advice is if this chick aint the one for you let here go and when you do come around one thats worth keeping pay more attention to her...
 
THere is an old saying ....."A Man is nothing without a great women behind him"...another saying
" A Man is not Rich becuase he has a lot of money and materialistic things, He is rich because he  is sorrounded my people that love and cherish him".............keep that in mind mayng.....

TRUTH.

just keep your car as a hobby.

[QUOTE=augdogg;168488]A car is just a car and not any kind of substitution for a good woman.[/QUOTE]
See, that's just it..you said "GOOD WOMAN".  If said woman does not equal that statement, car comes first.

With me, I involve my wife in the car life.  I build her car just as I build mine.  This makes her appreciate the work and effort and the spoils of driving a nice car.  She loves to get the compliments on the car from young and old alike.  Before me, she was never into cars...now she can school many guys.  She often makes me proud by pointing out ugly mods and crappy offsets..haha.

[QUOTE=elpresidente;168653]See, that's just it..you said "GOOD WOMAN".  If said woman does not equal that statement, car comes first.[/QUOTE]

Hey! It ain't my problem ppl don't know how to pick'em. Being wit woman is man-business, and not for the inexperienced.

[quote=Damicci;168549]It's just a part of their nature. My wife beat me with pillows the other night b/c she was MAD at ME and left the house and I didn't go look for her. Before that she beat me with pillows b/c I was on the computer WHILE SHE WAS SLEEP and wasn't paying attention to her. :saiyancrunks:[/quote]

Damn cuz your girls mainey.my the other time threw the ring i gave her for christmas at me and it's Diamonds it hurts.Last time she pushed me and ugh if she was somebody i cared so much about they bitch woulda been choked.LOL :smiley-rofl: But real talk she said she'll change next time she ends it im out and about.And thats fa' sho.

[quote=zion_97]THere is an old saying ....."A Man is nothing without a great women behind him"...another saying[/quote]

True and she is a great women just not when she's mad.It's like the devil.She's only seen my real mad once, not even the time when i punched my 22" flat LCD screen because my mom got on the phone when we were fighting and she dumped me.Later that day my fist was bleeding.Before that i had punched a hole on my wall.Men can just be Mainey hahaha.............:shrug:

Life's short so we'll see what happens like i said before last time i will take the dumping.

Well like i said i'll be back.Now im going through confusion.I don't want her stressed or me but i can't let her go.In my head i say im young but to start over damn cant even do it.She just too overreactive on everything.Like today when i had no signal she said i was ignoring her and i ended up not seeing her.I saw some my friends im like damn i can be doing all this again but i mean to get back into what i use to do not even.I have more fun with her then all my friends that don't even call me up.I got some girls number i can get at but i aint tryna cheat.What should i do now just let it be?or make the move and break up with her so she can be stress free?She said she wishes she was single but not single.To me that means shes saying, i dont want to be with you but not single,meaning i want a new guy.She calls me kid all the time it's like go find your so called man then.So i dont know what you guys think?:sad: Im like seriously just depressed,confused,sad,annoyed,hating myself,everything you get when she pushes your buttons and makes you call her a bitch when your havn't for the past 17 months.

[quote=Premiertea;168413]just think of it this way. your car will never leave you and you can touch it when ever you want. XD[/quote]
 
only if your car is paid off ... if not it could get repo'd! ahahaha

su*ks... its happen to me few days ago.. she said u love ur car more than me...

yup....well i told her to decide im dont with decsions she said its over and started crying so i just said think about it.It wont be the say anymore but f*ck it ya feel me?

[QUOTE=unknown007;171636]yup....well i told her to decide im dont with decsions she said its over and started crying so i just said think about it.It wont be the say anymore but f*ck it ya feel me?[/QUOTE]

Well, that's the end then, lol. 

Yea it hurts, i know, but it's time to find you another one.

As my cousin (a Master player) once told me, "Keep it movin, the next one is always better than the last"

If I'm with a girl who asks me to care less about my car, she's not right for me, end of story.

I'm not going to settle for someone who just 'tolerates' my 1 passion that I put so much time, energy, and money into.

But that's not for everybody I guess. I'm just picky.

It's time to go :eek4greddy: maybe you might find a guy thats into cars??? 
Problem solved :biggthumpup:

[quote=unknown007;171605]Well like i said i'll be back.Now im going through confusion.I don't want her stressed or me but i can't let her go.In my head i say im young but to start over damn cant even do it.She just too overreactive on everything.Like today when i had no signal she said i was ignoring her and i ended up not seeing her.I saw some my friends im like damn i can be doing all this again but i mean to get back into what i use to do not even.I have more fun with her then all my friends that don't even call me up.I got some girls number i can get at but i aint tryna cheat.What should i do now just let it be?or make the move and break up with her so she can be stress free?She said she wishes she was single but not single.To me that means shes saying, i dont want to be with you but not single,meaning i want a new guy.She calls me kid all the time it's like go find your so called man then.So i dont know what you guys think?:sad: Im like seriously just depressed,confused,sad,annoyed,hating myself,everything you get when she pushes your buttons and makes you call her a bitch when your havn't for the past 17 months.[/quote]
 
You need to start listening to Tom Leykis..........kick her ass to the curb and find a new one....Imagine how she owuld act after a couple kids...... BTW how old are you?

Im young but the love makes no difference in age.He well i mean she never said lets get back together so i guess it means im single.I still got her too but like i said i told it think about it but she never said lets get back together.:runcoold:

[quote=unknown007;171815]Im young but the love makes no difference in age.[B][COLOR=Red]He well i mean[/COLOR][/B] she never said lets get back together so i guess it means im single.I still got her too but like i said i told it think about it but she never said lets get back together.:runcoold:[/quote]


:innoutrofl2:

[quote=bOosty.ViP;171998]:innoutrofl2:[/quote]
LOL my bad..........

She's cheating on you with your best friend. 
 
:truestory:

[quote=VIP KING;172776]She's cheating on you with your best friend. 
 
:truestory:[/quote]

Not even......Bro if that was the case ooooooooeeeeee weeeeee we gonna be getting hyphy up ina minute feel me?:smiley-rofl:

I think your 137 posts are almost all in this thread. You need to go on a Dr. Phil forum.

[quote=Caoboy;172982]I think your 137 posts are almost all in this thread. You need to go on a Dr. Phil forum.[/quote]

Not even cuz.Hahaha thats a good one though hi-five (borat version)

hook up ur car, with or with out it, hit back the dating scene and fvck the bishes for free.... its cheaper like that, and this girl sounds awful anyway.

I got a new game plan for yeah, this shits gold! Tell bitches you dont date white girls (assuming your white) and you refuse to buy a girl a drink the night you meet em cause most bitches are just hustlin to drink for free... Work those two angles and you'll be money! I am tellin you, when you say you dont date white girls... omg lol, you'll never see a bitch try and get your attention so hard in your life. :shrug:

take your time to enjoy life and a nice girl will come around.

[quote=Skaper;173175]I got a new game plan for yeah, this shits gold! Tell bitches you dont date white girls (assuming your white) and you refuse to buy a girl a drink the night you meet em cause most bitches are just hustlin to drink for free... Work those two angles and you'll be money! I am tellin you, when you say you dont date white girls... omg lol, you'll never see a bitch try and get your attention so hard in your life. :shrug:[/quote]
 
Im not white!!!Im peruvian born in chile and my bacjground ancesters were black confusing but you can say im black hispanic version hahaha........:smiley-rofl:

[quote=petener;173177]take your time to enjoy life and a nice girl will come around.[/quote]
 
 
True i got on that lol but im with her but i mean i got some on the side.......cheatings bad but talking wont hurt :biggthumpup:

Real talk who's at fault on this?By the way it's offically over now!!!

As the day went we were watching a movie.She had an ear infection she said or something and i accidently hit her ear.I tried to hug her and say sorry and she pushed me away.I got up sat on my chair in my room left her laying on the bed and she said,"What are you doing?" (x2) i said,"Sitting down....."Believe it or not next thing you know she gets up grabs her stuff and hits me on my chest.

Im like WTF?!?!?!
me-Did you just hit me?
her-Yes i did!!!
me-No you didnt?!
her-Uhhhh Yes i didnt what you gonna do about it.
me-Oh ight..........

Of course i cant hit her.So she gets up trys and takes things she gave me even COD 4 (Thanks god she didnt find it).Then she grabs the ring i gave her which was $415 and a diamond ring and throws it in my face.Now thats disrespect.So i walked her out the door locked it went back up stairs first thing i did punched my wall then again punched the wall.

She didnt bother to call and apoligize which she usually does.So therefore i started showing no emotion like i use and she though i didnt care.The day went on we were texting but still i wansn't trying to take her back.

She calls me crying like 20mins ago from now saying its my fault that she hates me and before that she said she loves me im like wtf?i just need time and after saying that she just says i dont ever wanna talk to you or anything and she hung up.I tried calling her back.I just left her a voicemail saying that ethier way we broke up i was willing to waste my $40 on buying her the perfume she wanted.NOT HAPPENING ANYMORE!!!she just had to end it that way because i said i need time.

Who's fault is it?

P.S.i feel like its mine for taking her back 64537868642 times.:pat:

GO TO DR. PHIL. NO JOKE. Call him, or go on his website and try to get on his show. This would be comedy to see what he says.

[quote=Caoboy;173957]GO TO DR. PHIL. NO JOKE. Call him, or go on his website and try to get on his show. This would be comedy to see what he says.[/quote]
 
 
Yeah like im going to do what ya momma and adaddy di nah im coo i cant afford it anyways.:smiley-rofl: